Alright I’m just going to get straight to the point. My boyfriend (18M) and I (18F) have been together for almost 4 years, and finally decided to do the thing (iykyk).. On Nov 15, we tried and it just wasn’t going in and I was in so much pain so I had asked him to stop. (I don’t even use tampons bc it hurts). Then on Nov 16, he bought lube and we tried again. It went in and he lasted like 2 minutes (which I expected bc we are both virgins). It still hurt really bad but I toughed it out. There was a tiny bit of blood after when I wiped.
Also, forgot to add, he used a condom and I’ve been on birth control since Sept of 2019.
Ok, back to what I was saying, I bled for a little bit when I wiped for 2-3 days, nothing too bad at all. I stopped bleeding for one day, but then the spotting came back and now I’m getting bloody discharge on top of minor abdominal cramping. It’s been 9 days since we did it. I have bad anxiety and keep getting scared that I’m pregnant, but the odds of that would be extremely low due to the condom and the birth control (pills). Everything I Google obviously tells me the worse.
Is it normal to have slight cramping and bloody discharge ?? Thanks