24F ive always had issues trying to relax when it comes to foreplay when my partner is trying to make me orgasum its happened only a handful of times with him doing it and also when im doing it solo, ususally we used a toy during sex. Its was happening so often that my partner would be “offended” or feel like he ” failed” cuz i wouldnt cum. I guess i feel pressure to do it quickly so then it wont ruin our session. I guess i put pressure on myself cuz i feel pathetic that i cant even make myself do it when i fancy. I try relaxing my body and breathing proper but just hardly happens and get very frustrated. Is there something im doing wrong???
